From Surviving to Thriving Testimonials

Read the testimonials below from the caregivers and clients that participated in Surviving to Thriving!

Surviving to Thriving was an amazing experience for my daughter and I. It taught us various skills and provided us tools, it helped us connect with others that have been through similar experiences, and it allowed us to bond together as a family. That is why I would highly recommend this program to any other family that is mending and learning to reconnect after overcoming domestic violence.

Throughout the program both of us were taught and equipped with various skills and tools to help us overcome and cope with the past traumas that we experienced due to domestic violence. As a mother and single woman, I was taught the importance of self compassion, self love, and self worth. I was given the skills and tools to learn to take care of myself and my mental health and I was shown that it is okay to make sure that I was strong and healthy in order to be able to be strong for my children. To this day I still have my positive affirmations on my mirror as a positive reminder that I am strong and beautiful and every day is a new day. As for my daughter, she learned a large amount of coping skills that she has even taught her friends. She now spends her time drawing to express her emotions, she also learned to start writing about her feelings. She has cards from the program as little reminders as to which activities that she can do when she is distressed. She taught her best friend the breathing techniques that she learned in class and she even uses them herself to calm down, which is incredible. The amount of skills and tools learned and given to us in this program exceeded all of my expectations and we are both extremely grateful for them.

Also, by participating in this program both my daughter and I were able to connect with other people that have been through similar experiences. Personally, I am very timid when it comes to going out of my way to meet new people. I would never have found a way to connect with such a strong and wonderful group of women and children on my own. There are no words to describe the sense of security, comfort and understanding that I discovered when talking about my past experience with the other moms. It created a deep bond between us when we were able to ask each other and the group leaders questions about parenting or life in general after our traumatic experiences. I was able to learn a lot of information for myself and my daughter that I wouldn’t have be able to on my own. As for my daughter, she is even more timid than myself. So, when she met children that went through similar experiences so was extremely happy and excited to spend time with the other kids. The most comforting feeling in the world is knowing that you are not alone and without this program my daughter and I would not have been able to know the comfort of meeting others that have been through the same situation and see that they are also learning to reconnect and bond.

Along with bonding with new friends I was able to connect and bond with my daughter. Surviving to thriving taught my daughter and I how to express our emotions in a healthy way. This helped us grow our bond together because we were able to discuss difficult topics together without our emotions taking control of us. For example, after the groups my daughter I would sit down together and talk about some of the things we learned and then, whatever memory it triggered, we would draw out pictures together to help express our feelings about it. Another way that we bonded through group was that everyone would meditate together. To this day my daughter and I still meditate together, every night, before bed. Overall, the program helped us grow closer, connected more emotionally, and become a stronger mother daughter team.

Overall, our time in the program was amazing. I would love to thank Gillian’s Place for offering such a helpful program and all of the kind hearted, warm and welcoming staff that took the time and effort to put everything together. They made use feel safe, welcomed and treated us like family.  We were truly blessed to be given the opportunity to participate in this program. We would definitely attend this program again or any other program that helps women and children like us because it truly made a difference in our lives. 

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Surviving to thriving was an amazing experience for my daughter and I. It taught us various skills and provided us tools, it helped us connect with others that have been through similar experiences, and it allowed us to bond together as a family. That is why I would highly recommend this program to any other family that is mending and learning to reconnect after overcoming domestic violence.

Throughout the program both of us were taught and equipped with various skills and tools to help us overcome and cope with the past traumas that we experienced due to domestic violence. As a mother and single woman, I was taught the importance of self compassion, self love, and self worth. I was given the skills and tools to learn to take care of myself and my mental health and I was shown that it is okay to make sure that I was strong and healthy in order to be able to be strong for my children. To this day I still have my positive affirmations on my mirror as a positive reminder that I am strong and beautiful and every day is a new day. As for my daughter, she learned a large amount of coping skills that she has even taught her friends. She now spends her time drawing to express her emotions, she also learned to start writing about her feelings. She has cards from the program as little reminders as to which activities that she can do when she is distressed. She taught her best friend the breathing techniques that she learned in class and she even uses them herself to calm down, which is incredible. The amount of skills and tools learned and given to us in this program exceeded all of my expectations and we are both extremely grateful for them.

Also, by participating in this program both my daughter and I were able to connect with other people that have been through similar experiences. Personally, I am very timid when it comes to going out of my way to meet new people. I would never have found a way to connect with such a strong and wonderful group of women and children on my own. There are no words to describe the sense of security, comfort and understanding that I discovered when talking about my past experience with the other moms. It created a deep bond between us when we were able to ask each other and the group leaders questions about parenting or life in general after our traumatic experiences. I was able to learn a lot of information for myself and my daughter that I wouldn’t have be able to on my own. As for my daughter, she is even more timid than myself. So, when she met children that went through similar experiences so was extremely happy and excited to spend time with the other kids. The most comforting feeling in the world is knowing that you are not alone and without this program my daughter and I would not have been able to know the comfort of meeting others that have been through the same situation and see that they are also learning to reconnect and bond.

Along with bonding with new friends I was able to connect and bond with my daughter. Surviving to thriving taught my daughter and I how to express our emotions in a healthy way. This helped us grow our bond together because we were able to discuss difficult topics together without our emotions taking control of us. For example, after the groups my daughter I would sit down together and talk about some of the things we learned and then, whatever memory it triggered, we would draw out pictures together to help express our feelings about it. Another way that we bonded through group was that everyone would meditate together. To this day my daughter and I still meditate together, every night, before bed. Overall, the program helped us grow closer, connected more emotionally, and become a stronger mother daughter team.

Overall, our time in the program was amazing. I would love to thank Gillian’s Place for offering such a helpful program and all of the kind hearted, warm and welcoming staff that took the time and effort to put everything together. They made use feel safe, welcomed and treated us like family.  We were truly blessed to be given the opportunity to participate in this program. We would definitely attend this program again or any other program that helps women and children like us because it truly made a difference in our lives.